My Open-letter to J <3

It has been very challenging for us lately. I don’t know if ‘challenging’ even comes close to expressing what we’re going through. The turbulence in our life as of late has us, struggling to figure our way through, but I know we’ll get through it because I have you. 

You have been my strength lately, the crutch that gets me through the day, the voice that sees me through the moments. You’re the creases that form my smile, the laughter in my sorrow. You’re the reassurance in my doubts, the comfort in my falls. You’re the one who heals my heart when its broken, and the life that continues to give when mine is low. 

Thank you for being there. Thank you for being silent when all is loud. Thank you for the constant reminder that in all of this, I always have you.

MM, out!

Author: mommyingmaars

Maria, author of Imommy blog. Maria has three children, Apollo (8), Artemis (2), and Cassiopeia (1). She is due to marry her best friend July 2017. Maria used to be a Registered Early Childhood Educator, before having her second child. She is now a SAHM, that is not paid for wearing many other professional hats. She is, and not limited to some of these professional positions: Doctor, Nurse, Nanny, Chef, Maid, Uber Driver, and so on.. When she isn't mothering or tending to all her other unlicensed professional positions, she loves writing and dancing. She is a previous ballroom and latin competitor. Some of her favourite "stuff" are, turtles/turtoises, the colour green (lime - forest), Laneige's Sleeping mask, make-up, and eating (food is her most favourite self-care aspect). Maria is also currently writing a book on her autobiography, which has been ongoing for the last few years, she's certain she'll eventually finish if she could just get over the hump of emotions attached to exploring oneself. As you read Maria's blogs, you'll get a feel of the true individual that she is, which can sometimes be a fine line of crazy and sweet, but not too sweet. Maria hopes you'll enjoy her blog as she does talking in her head to herself as her fingers skim through the letters on her keyboard. A message from Maria; I do not intend to use my writing to impose or tell you how motherhood should be done. I am no pro at this, and find as I share my wisdom from my experiences, that it shall uncover parts of your heart that find it relatable. My posts aren't always consistent in writing, but it is meant for you to to take in as it is. Find it humurous, sad, lonely, or helpful. Whatever it is you take from it, it only means one thing.. that I have found a place in your mind for those few minutes you dedicated to reading my crap. Thank you for being here, for giving me the chance to share my thoughts. Please return, and remember all written materials and photos on this site, is not to be taken without permission. xo, MM

13 thoughts on “My Open-letter to J <3”

  1. It’s so important to take a moment and appreciate one another. Especially in the midst of a rut. My husband and I are totally stuck in the motion of wake, work, focus on our daughter and go to sleep. This is a good reminder that we need to foster OUR relationship during the tiring times.

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    1. Yes ma’am! We can easily get stuck doing the same thing day-in and day-out not noticing the immense chip at the relationship we had before acknowledging your spouse is improving your bond and making it even better.

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    1. As moms we always put our children first soon as we have them. I think that its important to recognize that before kids we were gfs/wives.. and there’s a reason for everything after. Our significant other is what allows us to have the opportunity to be more than wives..its what completes our family and thats something just as special.


  2. You are my inspiration. You are my strength. You are my reason. I know I can do what I have to because you are there beside me the whole way through. I am as much your crutch as you are mine. I prefer to think of it as being the other leg in this walk of life we are on together. You are an amazing mom. You are an amazing wife. As much as you put everyone else before your needs, never forget who you are. You are the strongest woman I have ever been blessed to know. And, even though it may not feel like it sometimes, always remember you well never lose yourself because you are part of me, in my heart and I will always be with you.

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